Celebrated writers Antjie Krog and Ingrid de Kok have written extensively about family and the influence of family. In Krog’s autobiographical novel, Blood’s Inner Rhyme, she explores with rigour and humour her complex relationship with her mother, the Afrikaner writer Dot Serfontein. De Kok’s new collection of poems, Unleaving, is partly an elegiac tribute to her late partner, Tony Morphet, and to her late brother, Kenneth de Kok. In this talk, the writers will engage with each other about the pleasures, difficulties and taboos involved in writing about family.